Greetings all:
The strongest reactions to the teenaged driving story was not from young people, it was from parents.
They told me that the hardest thing they had ever done was to send a child out to solo with his or her new drivers license. These are parents who spent months of seat time next to their teens, watching their reactions and judgments...letting them rack up experience and watching what kind of mistakes they made. They told me that the most frightening thing was that, even after weeks of careful and competent driving, their teen would suddenly pull a bonehead move that defied explanation.
Every parent I talked to is convinced that teenaged brains are just different, half-baked, still in the process of building important neurological pathways...and apparently subject to occasional hiccups. These new laws are aimed at getting those hiccups out of the way before they turn into disastrous wrecks.
Another note: one father of 6 said his kids have widely varying degrees of driving aptitude...and even with the same levels of instruction there are people who simply are never going to be good drivers. How's that for scary?
One of the best ideas I've seen is in a story I did a few months back called "Crash-Proofing Your Teenager". Driving instructors at the Autobahn Racetrack in Joliet have a program that puts young people through skidding maneuvers, emergency braking and obstacle avoidance...all in a safe and controlled environment. They say getting comfortable with the way cars respond to snow, ice or hard braking or steering can save lives.
I happen to have been one of those kids that loved driving from the get-go...always the kid in charge of driving the rest of the group... had a good sense of direction, knew where I was, enjoyed the mechanics of driving and have never lost the joy of it. I hope your kid is the same way.
Regards,
Lilia
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I'm a long-time reporter at Fox News with more than 25 years of journalism experience. In the course of my travails and travels I have worked in wires, newspapers and television, in Chicago and Albuquerque. Probably the most important lesson in all this a healthy respect for the great many ways there are to live life on our round planet...the second most important lesson is never wear high heels to a gang war. That's the thing about chasing news for a living...sometimes you have to run!
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